How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 00:55

How does one succeed in life?

Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Making more friends is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Ask yourself:

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What I need from you?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can you tell me something about yourself?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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That's it for today.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What is it that gives a man who is a submissive cock sucker his most pleasure?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Procrastinates a lot.

What are the reasons why am I so tired before my period?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Does not procrastinate.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?